hey its a third gen car, so the chime that goes off when the lights are on or the keys are in and the door is open. what is the thing called that plugs into the "covenience center", and its labeled "Audio Alarm Assembly". is it just a fuse or is it a buzzer or something?

 

my car wont do that. but in your fuse box look around for a big block like relay and that should be it. normally they are about 1 square inch and have 3 to 5 prongs on them. make the buzzer go off then pull out each one as you put them back in and keep doing this until it stops.