feeling a little dumb here but i can't think of the name of this so i can get a new on its the rubber T that goes on front intake where there are a small hose on one side and a lrger one on the other,,see picture attached

 

Are you talking about the PCV valve? Closeup pic of the part in question would be more helpful...

 

That piece you have outlined in red looks like it might be a dealer only part. You could check with local auto parts stores and possibly a suto salvage yard. I doubt that the auto parts store would carry that.