your not using a wiring harness adapter are you??? if you are you have something messed up there. if someone cut and spliced in the new harness your going to want to run a wire from either the radio fuse or any "key on" 12V wire to the red wire on the back of the radio

 

could be the rap module. there is also a bose relay in there if you have a u82 production code.

 

but what if hes into rock or country

 

Don't remember to be honest. Will have to check it out. There's lotta times I don't do music and when I get off car I go like "Oh f***, the radio " LoL...It's annoying.