3.73 or 4.11 gears
#2
Nether one will give the car more power. What you really want to know is the amount of torque delivered to the drive wheels. The 4.11:1 gears will multiply the available torque by 4.11 times, while the 3.73:1 gears will multiply the available torque by 3.73 times. All things being equal, the lower gears (4.11 being lower than 3.73) will allow the car to accelerate quicker, up to a point, but you also have to keep in mind that the lower the gears the higher the engine must rev to to maintain the same road speed.
#7
Ah, but you said you'll break the rearend, that's why I asked to see what you meant. Getting a car moving with a higher rear gear, say a 2:73, puts more stress on the engine, trans, driveshaft, and ring & pinion. Lower gears, say a 4:11, lowers the stress on those components, which is why the engine and drivetrain now have a much easier time at getting the car to jump out of the hole. But, since lower gears act as a torque multiplier (after the ring & pinion), more stress would be put on the axle shafts. The entire rearend isn't in jeopardy, just the axles if they can't take the torque.
#9
imma street it mostly and occasionally take it to the track its always fun to track a car and see what its true potential is